I have won Nanowrimo after 8
years. I’ve won because I have an outline, a theme, encouragement and
determination. I’d be the first to admit that it has been hard. There have been
4 days that I’ve stopped because my brain swirls with all of these ideas. My
brain need a break. In the past 2 days, I’ve typed over 8900 words to win.
After turning the corner on 40,000 words with 8 days to go, I was determined to
win. Before this year, 38,000 was my personal best. Now I will revise my book
and prepare for the manuscript editing this December.
Friday, November 27, 2015
Tuesday, November 24, 2015
The Difference between Gratitude and Intention
There is a difference between
gratitude and intention. Many gurus want people to be grateful. There is
nothing wrong with that. I awake every morning and go to bed every night
grateful for life and opportunity; however, I am set intentions every morning and
night towards getting as much money, abundance and freedom. I equate gratitude as
static or potential energy. When are grateful, you are still and quiet. You are
grateful for your current state and what you have right now. Yet, to move
forward, you need intentions which is dynamic or kinetic energy. When you
intend to do something, you set the ball in motion. There is a big difference
between gratitude and intention. You cannot move forward only on gratitude. You
must add intention in order to become a better version of you.
Sunday, November 22, 2015
Veracity
Veracity (noun):
Full Definition of VERACITY
1
:
devotion to the truth : truthfulness
2
:
power of conveying or perceiving truth
3
4
:
something true
The word of the week is veracity.
Although I practice internal honesty every day, with 2016 being less than 45
days away, I need to be more honest. I need to declutter letting things, ideas
and people who don’t serve me. I need to drop things that hold me back from my
greatness. I must do it now and not want until New Year’s Eve because those
evil spirits will weigh me down.
Tuesday, November 17, 2015
Tuesday, November 10, 2015
Nano Epiphany and Other Things
I
know that I have been busy with Nanowrimo (National Novel Writing Month) so I
haven’t been writing on Blogger much. Today I have to take a mental break (I am
currently at 17,676 words and 20,000 is my next goal). I am ahead 3 days so I
deserve the rest. Also I have had a great epiphany. While perusing the
#Nanowrimo hashtag yesterday, I came across some woman who wasn’t participating
in this year’s competition because it coincided with her doctoral thesis. We
tweeted each other and I learned that writing a 50,000-word novel was similar
to writing a doctoral dissertation. The lightbulb went off immediately.
I
admit that I have been toying around with returning to school for my doctoral
degree but I am conflicted about which major I should pursue. I know that economics is the most math
intensive out of statistics and business administration, but it is very hard.
Personally, I don’t want to be seen as a math slacker. I am leaning towards
taking statistics because it is out of 100 and I can still hold tight to my
NASA Astronaut dreams. To become a NASA Astronaut, I need to have a STEM
(science, technology, engineering and mathematics) degree. Statistics will
qualify me for this. Furthermore, becoming an astronaut satisfies my inner
Trekker. My mother has hooked me on the original Star Trek with William Shatner
while growing up in Cleveland. I always want to be in something
science-related. Therefore, earning a statistics degree puts me front and
center. Although I have some incomplete education elsewhere, I still believe
that with adequate preparation and discipline that I can accomplish my stats
goal (It would be great to write about my statistical analysis too!).
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Wednesday, October 21, 2015
My Worst Travel Weekend Ever!
I had the travel experience from
hell this past weekend. I was supposed to board American Airlines at National
airport to Norfolk to attend the TCE Summit. I was excited in the Uber en route
to DC airport when I got this cancellation email. Immediately I called the
customer service and that lady was a grade A witch. She told me that she
cancelled my entire reservation because I did not want to fly out of Baltimore,
layover in Charlotte then fly to Norfolk. That would had taken 5 hours. I hung
up on her returning home to book a Sunday American Airline plane ticket then
Amtrak business ticket to Newport News. I arrived at Union Station at 5:30pm
but the train was late boarding everyone at 6:15pm instead of 5:50pm meaning
that I didn’t get into Newport News until 10:50pm. The only thing keeping me
calm was talking with my girlfriend. My train ride was the first stop because I
had to board a transfer bus from Newport News to Norfolk. Finally, I had to
call Uber to my hotel arriving after midnight. What angered me the most was
that I was unable to eat dinner with my father. My saving grace was that he was
still up when I arrived there (and offered me a piece of chicken because I
refused to pay exorbitant food rates on Amtrak).
Newport News Amtrak Station
I
spent all Saturday morning recuperating and overcoming my travel headache which
I attributed to downing caffeine. My father said that he would be on the road
at 6am so I drug myself out of bed, put on my business slacks and took a photo
with my Dad because that was what I initially wanted on Friday night. I posted
it on Facebook and Instagram ASAP. My Dad stayed an extra day to see me and
that photo represented redemption. American Airlines could not hold me down!
After he left, I crashed missing half of the TCE Summit.
Dad and I at the Norfolk Springhill Suites
I made it to the
other session. Then we had lunch.
Afterward I was stuck at the Me/Self table which I did not understand because I
took time out for myself. What I hated was this woman who complained to us
about her being invisible to her husband but when I called her on it she played
victim. I did not need that. Furthermore, I noticed that some reason there was
always 1 crazy at my conference table. I should attract better. I took my
photo, did a Periscope and returned back to my room to await my Ohio State
game.
Sunday morning I
was ready to fly out to DC. My flight was 10:05am and I left at 8:30am to
ensure that I was there on time. Nope! American delayed my first an hour. On
top of that, my original return flight ticket was honored. I tweeted the
airline immediately because that meant that I bought a duplicate ticket. Things
got worse because I ended up waiting 3 hours and 45 minutes for my flight to
leave. That was the worst flight experience I ever had. Although I applied for
my refund Sunday night, I spent Monday and Tuesday recovering from the hellish
travel weekend courtesy of American. I am sticking with United and Delta after
this!
Norfolk Airport outside
Sunday, October 11, 2015
I’ve Decided to Grow Up Today
I
have purchased Money magazine at the CVS this afternoon. After
reading it, I buy a 2-year $20 subscription because I need to grow up and
manage my money better. Now I do earn 6 figures, save 25% of my non-rent
paycheck and max out my retirement savings to receive the corporate match but I
just feel stuck; therefore, I have decided to better educate myself
financially. I know that I am full capable of not only getting to the $1
million level but surpassing it. I know that I possess the ability to become
the first wholly owned black Fortune 500 CEO company. I have grown up over $32
($12 for 1-year Kiplinger Personal
Finance and $20 for a 2-year Money magazine
subscriptions). I may also consider buying Worth
magazine because my goal is to prepare myself for the stratosphere. I know that
my book career will take off and reading financial magazines are the ways that
I’ll be prepared for positive change.
Thursday, October 01, 2015
Mass Shootings Will Never Make Me Numb EVER!
Unlike
some people, I am not numb to mass shootings. Today is no exception. I can
never understand the motive behind them. Like ‘what is it?’ Why shoot up
everything over stupid mess. Now I have been teased throughout grade school but
killing people is a big no-no. It is just plain grotesque that killing a whole
bunch of people is okay. Finally, let’s start re-labeling these mass murderers
as evil instead of mentally ill. 99.9% of mentally ill people aren’t blogging
manifestos and killing people.
http://t.co/icHuFqknnt
(Heavy.com Oregon mass shooter article)
When Ed2Go Learning Becomes Your Second Skin: Continuing Education and Improving Myself and My Business
I
have to take stock in my accomplishments and not have tunnel vision all of the
time. Today I have completed Ed2Go Creating WordPress Websites I quizzes 1 and
2. In the middle of my class, 2 things hit me: 1) I am amazed at my level of
productivity when I am not stressed and 2) taking Ed2go courses constitute as
self-investment. Regarding the latter, I have taken Ed2Go classes on and off
for 5 years that the practice has become normalized. I have tunnel vision and
don’t even consider it as self-investment; however, it is because I am paying
money and devoting time and effort towards improving myself. I am now running
PositivityChange.com and I need to acquire as much knowledge as possible.
Tonight I have created a WordPress site independent of GoDaddy. That’s a huge
accomplishment because now I can update my site independently. In addition, I
can go over my site with my social media coach tomorrow afternoon. By tomorrow’s
appointment, I will have completed 2 more lessons so that I will have a better
grip on WordPress. Continuing education is essential towards my improving my
brand and me.
Monday, September 28, 2015
Sunday, September 27, 2015
NYC Four Seasons Restaurant Pool Room Review
This week I have attended the
inaugural Periscope Summit (you can read all about it here on LinkedIn http://bit.ly/1FCbG3R ). During my downtime. I
are at the New York City Four Seasons Restaurant – Pool Room. I had to dine
there since I was a DC Four Seasons regular. The NYC atmosphere was totally
different surprising me. It was 100% businesslike even at 8:15pm. I was
astounded because DC was the more conservative town it was NYC where the men
wore this standard uniform (blue suit jacket, white shirt and red tie). I was just
glad to wear my Roberto Cavalli dress and Rene Caovilla sandals. The highlight
was the food of course! The wait staff was wonderful. I got free ravioli and
chocolate cake for my first visit. It wouldn’t be my last check out my photos!
NYC Four Seasons Restaurant Dinner Menu
Shrimp Ravioli
Grilled Snapper
Free Chocolate Cake, Apple Cinnamon Cake and Free Cotton Candy
NYC Four Seasons Restaurant Pool Room Table Setting
Saturday, September 26, 2015
What I Learned from Periscope Summit
Check out my new YouTube video discussing my Blogger and LinkedIn What I Learned from Periscope Summit article. Enjoy!
Friday, September 25, 2015
Lessons from Attending the First Periscope Community Summit
This week was the inaugural
Periscope Community Summit. It was held in New York City. Periscope is a
livestreaming application available on iPhone and Android. I managed to score a
ticket and a room at the Yotel (the conference hotel) for this event. Below
were the lessons learned that I culminated while attending. These 5 tips would
help maximize your conference experience.
1. Develop
a personal marketing plan
I drafted mine
while on the plan because I wanted to capitalize upon the opportunity of
attending the first Periscope Community Summit; and this demands focus. My
marketing plan contained the 4ps: product, place, price and promotion. These
four constituted the marketing mix. Here was mine for the Periscope Summit:
·
Product: me
·
Place: Periscope Summit in New York City
·
Price: varies depending on product or service
·
Promotion: My Periscope feed and YouTube channel
Periscope is
only available for 24 hours so many users either subscribe to Katch or upload
their videos onto YouTube. The Katch website is katch.me. You could also upload
your Periscope to YouTube. YouTube would increase your search engine
optimization (SEO).
2. Attend
the meetups
I had the
benefit of staying at the Summit’s conference hotel where there were many
meetups occurring. These allowed me to network with other scopers (people who
use Periscope). Sometimes these meetups were more important than the sponsored
events because you saw people in their raw element without pretense. These
unofficial group settings made networking easier.
3. Practice
your elevator pitch
Your elevator
pitch was indispensable towards introducing yourself especially during a
livestream event. The Periscope Summit was a livestream event with many
broadcasters and someone could film you. You wanted to look professional just
in case your video went viral. Be known for the right reason by staying
prepared and practicing your elevator pitch!
4. Have
fun and explore
Take advantage
of downtime to recharge yourself. Since the conference hotel was in Times
Square, I explored the area. I also traveled to Midtown and Fashion Avenue.
These excursions gave me a more well-rounded experience by merging the
conference with the city.
5. Have
a post-conference action plan
Though it was nice
that you’ve attended the conference, created your personal media plan,
practiced your elevator pitch and networked all of the events, all of those
things would be for naught without implementing a post-conference action plan. Creating
one is essential because once the hype and enthusiasm wore off, you don’t want
to be disappointed. Follow-up with thank you letters and emails mentioning the
event you both attended and you’re interested in establishing a connection in
the future. The recipient would remember that simple goodwill gesture. The
letter would also establish your brand as one with integrity. The
post-conference action plan enabled me to never squander a conference
opportunity!
Check me out on Periscope at https://www.periscope.tv/missphenom
Monday, August 31, 2015
My Extended Summer DC Restaurant Week Photos
Below
are my summer DC restaurant week photos. I have gone to PJ Clarke’s, Kapnos, Hay
Adams hotel and Co Co Sala. My photos have been late because I have been busy
but I love participating in this bi-annual event. Here are my photos by
restaurants:
Hay Adams Hotel
Co Co Sala
Hitting the Refresh Button: 2015 is 2/3 Over With
I have had one of those rare days from Hell. I am here in my
jammies vegging out on TV when I realize that 2/3 of 2015 is over. I have to
hit the refresh button tomorrow because there are 4 more months to get it right
in 2015. No more sulking but a whole lot more doing.
Wednesday, August 26, 2015
Bouncing Back
Resilient
a : capable of withstanding
shock without permanent deformation or rupture
— re·sil·ient·ly adverb
After having a horrific start to this week, I have bounced
back towards being productive. I’m getting back to writing and photography. I’m
getting back to me and I love it.
Wednesday, August 19, 2015
Bishop T.D. Jakes’ Destiny Book Review
T.D.
Jakes’ Destiny book is supposed to
take off where Instinct left off but Destiny did more than that. Destiny supplied the blueprint towards
taking full advantage of the window of opportunity is still open. My favorite
part of the book is surviving the horror movie. Oftentimes in life, when you
grow your former crew, they become zombies trying to repossess your soul and
kill your dreams. I identify with this in my life. It can look like the Michael
Jackson Thriller music video.
Bishop
Jakes also discusses what happens after the horror movie and very few people
delve into this transitional period once your destiny is realized. Jakes
understands that the reader needs new skills to adapt to this new environment.
His book Destiny masterfully guides
you through the paradigm shift towards fulfilling yours.
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Saturday, August 15, 2015
My 1% Improvement: Reading What Color Is Your Parachute 2016
I am reading, ‘What
Color is Your Parachute for 2016’. Honestly, I was just perusing Amazon just to
look at any new career books that I can read and I discovered that this book was
just published this past Tuesday, August 11, 2015. It’s a classic. I honestly
never read a previous edition. I know it's been around for over 20 years but I
said why not go ahead read it? Give it a chance, give it a shot and more
importantly from a personal career perspective I wanted to get into my second gear
for the rest of 2015. As you know this is August 2015 and I believe we have in
between 33 to 40% of the year remaining so why should I wait until 2016 to do
something when I can get started in August 2015? Get a head start and do
something productive for the remaining three and a half months. Furthermore, this
time also coincides with the children's back to school. I know that a lot of my
friends have children. Since this is back-to-school for them, I decided to read
this book as my own personal back-to-school for personal enrichment. I will
update everyone on periscope to see what I currently think of the book.
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Sunday, August 09, 2015
My Birthday 2015
Sage (adjective)
1
a :
wise through reflection and experience
2
: proceeding
from or characterized by wisdom, prudence, and good judgment <sage advice>
— sage·ly adverb
— sage·ness noun
This year I turn a new leaf and a
new page. I will leave all of last year’s trials and tribulations in my
rearview mirror. All of these obstacles have given me sage wisdom. Now I know
what not to do and how to move forward after adversity. I am looking forward
towards my new year and know that this will be my best year ever!
Saturday, August 08, 2015
Insight: The Day before My Birthday
Insight (noun)
1. The
power or act of seeing into a situation: penetration
2. The
act or result of apprehending the inner nature of things or of seeing
intuitively
This is my last day as a
37-year-old. This year has been one with a lot of tribulations, some I’ve never
experience before now. Honestly, though I’ve come out on top, I never want to
ever repeat this cycle ever, ever again. What I will do in my next year of life
is travel more. It’s essential to move beyond DC to grow personally and
professionally.
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